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Old 08-21-2003, 01:46 PM   #1 (permalink)
saranmark
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Join Date: Jul 2003
Posts: 153
Location: Elkhart, IN
Status: Married Couple-female half

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Default The blind leading the blind?

Okay, I have a question. (Yes, another one... )

We have yet to have our first actual swinging experience. We have gone the route of posting an ad, and we have gotten numerous responses, but none of them seem to be compatible to us.

Until we received one this past weekend. It seems like we really might "click" with this couple. The thing is: They haven't yet had an actual experience either.

Do you think we are courting disaster- to get a group of newbies together, all for the first experience?

It seems rather comforting to me, knowing that they won't know what to do any more than we will, but if NONE of us knows when to make the first move, when the time is right, etc, -- that would be bad, too.

Does anyone have any thoughts on this?? Should our first experience be with an experienced couple?

Any thoughts on this would help...

SARA
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