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Originally posted by Mmmm...inNC:
Soooo shot down... I had my open discussion with my wife last night about including someone else in bed and was told that the fantasy was fine but the reality would not. |
Mmmm....NC
Why not ask her if she'd watch other couples or the two of you could just be with each other in an open room at at a swingers club.
Thats how we got started. I don't think my wife would have done an immediate swap before taking this step first. Once we took this first step she got to observe other couples reactions first hand.Now each time we go the rules get more relaxed. Be sure to tell her that her going is not a future commitment to anything; just expanding your horizons.