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danc694u · 02-09-2002, 10:47 AM

Well at the very least, the door has been opened. It may come up again in the future. But for now, you've done all that you can do.

Just don't spend a lot of time dwelling on the fact she refused. Who knows, after thinking about it awhile, she may bring it back up.

You've opened the door. Now all you need to do is allow her to walk through it, at her own pace, if she ever does. There are some people that need a bit of a shove (and some folks here will agree). But, I for one disagree with that tactic.

David

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danc694u Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 546 Location: Birmingham, AL Status: couple	Well at the very least, the door has been opened. It may come up again in the future. But for now, you've done all that you can do. Just don't spend a lot of time dwelling on the fact she refused. Who knows, after thinking about it awhile, she may bring it back up. You've opened the door. Now all you need to do is allow her to walk through it, at her own pace, if she ever does. There are some people that need a bit of a shove (and some folks here will agree). But, I for one disagree with that tactic. David [ 02-09-2002: Message edited by: danc694u ] __________________ Phonies and Fakes Need not apply. We're as real as it gets, and don't have time to be wasting on dumbasses.