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Old 02-08-2002, 11:21 AM   #23 (permalink)
jimcat
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Originally posted by Mmmm...inNC:
PCouple - that sounds so uncomplicated! I was reading a post by Stratecoupl in the General Swingers "Taking a break" board that made me think I should rethink my interest.

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Mmmm...inNC
My wife and I took completely the opposite
approach to swinging then Stratecoupl. We avoid the internet completely. We don't chat, don't advertise, don't e-mail. We just feel that their is entirely too much misrepresentation by couples and singles.We feel the best approach is a swingers club where you can make an "upfront" assessment of the people your considering playing with.This approach has definetly worked for us. With our jobs and family we dont have the time otherwise--- the swingers club route is very efficent.We've meet many people
and from this can match up with the desired personality and sexual appeal. I really cant fathom people that spend countless hours on the internet other than people who don't have access to a club. Just a suggestion on how not to get frustrated before you get even get started.
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