We'd been married for 20 years when we first swung. I had talked about it in fantasy during sex for several years, about how I would like it if we had a 4-some with a couple that we know well. It was always just a fantasy. Then one day my wife (Fiona) mentioned it to the other woman (Bev) as a joke. Bev mentioned it to her hubby (Mal) as a joke, but he got serious about it and kept on at Bev to approach Fiona seriously. Well, when she did and Fiona told me about it I had an instant hardon. The four of us then talked about it and agreed to give it a try.
So we got together with no fixed plans but just to see how it developed. The biggest hurdle was getting naked in front of each other. Once we got over that, I sat with Bev, and Mal with Fi, and after some initial embarrassment, we had a same room swap session. It was the first time any of the four of us had had sex with someone other than the spouse. That was 3 years ago. Since then we have swung regularly with Mal and Bev, and on two occasions with a third couple joining us.
When Fiona and I look at each other getting pleasured by someone else, we feel so happy at our spouse's enjoyment and at how strong our love for each other is.
Ash.
[ 02-07-2002: Message edited by: PCouple ] |