Liza, There are some things that have been left out of my initial post for the sake of being concise, however as the dialogue and especially yours questioning 20 years of being open and honest are brought up, so have my thoughts on some of the experiences we did share and why the swinging aspect did not move forward before ( I had mentioned that there was some experience with more than the two of us, small as it may be). You are right twenty years of a good relationship should allow for this to be an easy discussion. My problem has been that I do want to be sucessful and have not developed much tactfulness for asking the big question, you guys are helping me on that.
Thanks again everyone, I believe the board has been successful in answering my questions. I like what I see here at the Swingers Board, and hope that I can contribute sometime.
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