Alura-
Some idiot sent me 711 letters yesterday telling me how I could make $3000 a month working from home! So I just deleted them all.
Hmmm.......my initiation in swinging. Well when I was married to my first husband I had 2 girlfriends who were both part of swinging couples. They told me a lot about their experiences and it always sounded very interesting to me. BUT my first husband was not the right person to try it with and I never even brought it up. I think with him it would have been a bad experience.
So after we were divorced and I started dating Matt we discussed a LOT of different sexual things....I mean we covered almost every possible scenario and desire in about a month's time. Swing clubs were something that intrigued us both, so I started doing a lot of investigating and found the ones in So. Cal. and about 6 monthes later we tried one. First time (first 4 or 5 times!) were ok, there was jealousy, I was nervous, I felt fat, etc etc. But it got easier and more fun. Now I hate to say it but it's almost ho-hum, look honey, more sex!
I guess because my relationship was so open so early on about sex it is just hard for me to grasp how a couple can be married 20+ years and not know each other well enough to know the others view on just about every subject under the sun! |