Invictus ? Yes, it seems apropo to check in on her feelings on the subject while watching a movie and the watching part turns her on. I have tried hints at this time she just hasn't bitten at these "opportunities" I had a few emails with someone who swings with the same type of questions and was advised that I should discuss it while not involved in sexual activities, I may have taken that too literal. I appreciate the reinforcement to not do anything on my own. I have a difficult time imagining not including her and in fact would like to just watch her get pleasure if nothing else.
Jimcat - I agree with you: that can sex being different than love, my wife once replied in disbelief of the idea.
Other posts - sound encouraging, I am looking forward to the next step.
thanks!
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