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Stratecpl · 02-05-2002, 05:54 AM

Watcherone,

You certainly won't catch any flak from me...it sounds like it was very exciting. I think we all agree that communicating with our spouse is the number one most important part of starting something like this. That excitement and intensity is very difficult to imagine if you've never done it!

Mmmm...inNC,

I am the one who initially brought it up here in our situation. We would be in the middle of some hot sex together and I'd ask her what she would think if someone else was watching. After awhile, I began to ask her how she would feel if some other man was doing her with me helping. Of course there was lots of disbelief for awhile, but after months of this, she asked me if I was serious. Well, of course I was or I wouldn't have mentioned it in the first place...

Just so happens I had some good friends I hadn't seen in a long time, and figured they might want to give it a go. We began to correspond with them, and I boldly asked if they might be interested in playing. They promptly bought round-trip airline tickets and flew up for several days! At first we were a bit hesitant, but once things got to moving it was the absolute hottest 3 days we ever spent!!!

Since then, there's been no turning back. We always discuss everything together, whether it's a fear or a whim. The sex together just gets better and better, all the time, too. And we have no regrets whatsoever. Hope this helps!!

Ron, Husband of Stratecpl

02-05-2002, 05:54 AM	#4 (permalink)
Stratecpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2000 Posts: 456 Location: TN, USA	Watcherone, You certainly won't catch any flak from me...it sounds like it was very exciting. I think we all agree that communicating with our spouse is the number one most important part of starting something like this. That excitement and intensity is very difficult to imagine if you've never done it! Mmmm...inNC, I am the one who initially brought it up here in our situation. We would be in the middle of some hot sex together and I'd ask her what she would think if someone else was watching. After awhile, I began to ask her how she would feel if some other man was doing her with me helping. Of course there was lots of disbelief for awhile, but after months of this, she asked me if I was serious. Well, of course I was or I wouldn't have mentioned it in the first place... Just so happens I had some good friends I hadn't seen in a long time, and figured they might want to give it a go. We began to correspond with them, and I boldly asked if they might be interested in playing. They promptly bought round-trip airline tickets and flew up for several days! At first we were a bit hesitant, but once things got to moving it was the absolute hottest 3 days we ever spent!!! Since then, there's been no turning back. We always discuss everything together, whether it's a fear or a whim. The sex together just gets better and better, all the time, too. And we have no regrets whatsoever. Hope this helps!! Ron, Husband of Stratecpl __________________ "Well behaved women rarely make history"