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Mmmm...inNC · 02-04-2002, 08:19 PM

My wife and I have been married for 23 years ( married at 19). We have an honest and wonderful relationship. Other than in bed during the heat of passion and several experiences many years ago, my wife seems to be satisfied with just the two of us. For her the idea of one or more partners seems only to be fantasized about in bed. I, on the other hand have always been interested in making it a reality though am having trouble bringing up the topic, as I am worried that a conversation about swinging could have the opposite effect and make her upset. I have been hoping she would bring up the topic. Can anyone relate their story of how swinging became a topic of discussion within the couple and especially if the other partner was playing it cool? I have been checking online for ideas and answers and possibly support for my interests, do you think this is unethical without discussing with her first?

Mmmm?

02-04-2002, 08:19 PM	#1 (permalink)
Mmmm...inNC Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 44 Location: Greensboro Status: Male half of couple	How to discuss taking swinging from fantasy to reality? My wife and I have been married for 23 years ( married at 19). We have an honest and wonderful relationship. Other than in bed during the heat of passion and several experiences many years ago, my wife seems to be satisfied with just the two of us. For her the idea of one or more partners seems only to be fantasized about in bed. I, on the other hand have always been interested in making it a reality though am having trouble bringing up the topic, as I am worried that a conversation about swinging could have the opposite effect and make her upset. I have been hoping she would bring up the topic. Can anyone relate their story of how swinging became a topic of discussion within the couple and especially if the other partner was playing it cool? I have been checking online for ideas and answers and possibly support for my interests, do you think this is unethical without discussing with her first? Mmmm?