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Originally posted by Elusive BiFem
...So my question is this: how is it any different in terms of sizing someone up for separate playtime after being part of a couple as opposed to being single? A serious question that I've really wondered about. Thanks! -EBF |
We don't think it's really any different at all. Like Teresa says, it comes down to making a judgment based on how they act, what they say and ultimately a 'gut' feeling thay you get. You have to keep your head in the game (and NOT the little one either, LOL) and
listen to your instincts. It it feels even the slightest bit wrong, it probably is, and you should back off.
One difference is that it's not just one of us making the call; we both have to feel right about playing alone. That's where communication becomes so important. Neither of us had a real good feeling about our first encounter, but we weren't communicating that to each other, or we might have stopped. We've worked that out now; experience is a great teacher!
-B