To me it would be the same as if I were single trying to decide if I could trust a guy in that way. As a single I didn't (and again don't) have someone else there to ensure my safety so I have to make a judgement call if I'm going to consider having sex with someone.
The same thing goes as a couple. If someone is going to overstep their boundaries they are going to do it whether you are there or not. The only thing you can really do by being there is beat the crap out of him if he won't listen to your wife's requests. |