As a single female, i.e., not part of a couple, I have had this nagging question in my mind ever since reading some of these posts. Now if I can say it right...
All of the females that are married were single before they became couples. And by virtue of the fact they are now part of a couple, it would stand they have had, for the most part, rather significant experience separating the "wheat from the chaff" to quote Bear, during their single days.
As a single, I meet a man, size him up, he invites me to dinner, comes by, picks me up in his car, and I go off with him alone. Completely alone and without even the benefit of someone just down the hall or in another room. Now obviously, I have sized him up beforehand to the degree that I feel some level of comfort.
So my question is this: how is it any different in terms of sizing someone up for separate playtime after being part of a couple as opposed to being single? A serious question that I've really wondered about. Thanks! -EBF |