Interesting! I've never put two and two together as to why we always end up playing with older couples... We're both 23, so I could totally see people thinking that we were immature etc., but I do know that I make a point of making comments in ads I place about how long we've been playing with others as a couple (2 years). Right now we are new to the swinging clubs or defined swinging, so I'm trying to feel things out before jumping into a party, so this is all great information. Before we would just post at various "sex boards" which would work out pretty good most of the time, but could be very frustrating when people didn't listen to our ads and responded (we only play when both of us are present). I will now try to make sure my ads stand out as *mature* young adults in order to not scare anyone away!
