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I think there are alot of good points made....and I agree that most younger people arent ready for the experimentation of different things. Some people mature at slower rates than others do....especially sexually. Another thing is at a young age...honesty ,understanding, and being upfront just isnt the norm.
I personally am brand new to the scene..I am very interested in the lifestyle and have been taking it very slow. I have yet to meet up with anyone or go to any events. What I am doing instead is reading alot of messages from y'all....to see what is expected ,liked ,disliked and such. I have one couple I have started talking with yesterday...and hope to become friends with them...I have explained that I have never done this before...but understand the respect for boundaries and understand that I am the one being let in on their sexual life. I also have explained that I am not pushy at all about this....we can first go out for dates first to get to know one another with no expectations included...if it happens it happens....but nothing is expected at first.
I have read quite a few horror stories about single guys and realize that young single guys have 2 strikes against them...I hope to be the exception to the rule.Also sexually I am very open minded....the only thing I put off limits is me being with another guy sexually...I am not gay at all...I dont mind mfm 3-somes...or anything like that...you know what I mean
I have tried experimenting alot in my sex life..and have gotten alot of funny looks and questions like that also..so I know what you mean"you want to do what?"...lol
Well..I dont think a post will change many minds..but I hope it does make others aware that some younger single guys are aware of what is expected and desired of the single guy in the swing scene..I think If I stay honest ,respectful ,and understanding I should do ok
..I hope to meet and make friends with as many people as I can..as I am very serious about this.
And they all lived happily ever after(sorry about the book)...lol :p