well sir.... what 'brought that on' is I believe I am a rather abrupt writer.... I type the way I speak, which is rather forthright, or so I am told.
I am very impressed with this message board..... all the posters are so open and honest and not easily offended.
It is a true sharing of experiences and thoughts and so very good for people involved or wondering about becoming involved in swinging.
Now mind you, I Am Canadian
however, I run an informational site re: swinging up here and the majority of the swinger websites and clubs here are WAY too caught up in politics and WAY too little practicalities and sharing of experiences. I get bashed all over the place for up here for the posts on my site
We all live in little igloos doncha know (kidding!)and therefore know our neighbours FAR too well to have this type of non threatening discussions.
I will say this.. I'm getting a lot of clarification outside our own little swinger land here and it's very helpful to me and to my postings to share what I learn from here. I don't cross post or anything.. I just share my learning curve with my readers