well, ok all stop all this arguing already i get what everyone is saying to me about the problem i have, we're both honest with eachother with the chatting online with other people. he just started doing this after all the problems we've had this past few months.
after these replys i've recieved from my question i had to really get to the bottom of all of this with him and find out why it has been bothering him so much now, when it had never before.
well, turns out he had some insecurity issues after our resent separation that i would leave him for someone else. all he needed was some reassurance that it wouldn't happen.
as far as swinging goes. well, that to us both think its a separate issue and have not had any problems with that at all, seeing that it's mainly me who does anything with another female
{all done with his permission and consent of course}
we never let any differences that accure between us go any further then our own bedroom{except this board of course, which he fully understand why i do} and we never hurt anyone we are involved with, we simply let them know that we need time to resolve our differences before we can continue with any kind of sexaul relationship with them.
now that i know the reason behind his behavior we can get past this and he's actually not opposing to me chatting anymore, just as long as i let him know about the chats i have.
{which i never hide for him to begin with}
he seems to be alright with it now, knowing that i won't do what he was fearing i would.
hey, we've been together for a long time and have gone to hell and back sometimes it seems something like this wouldn't tare us apart {piss us off maybe, but he's irish and i'm spanish so it's to be expected} we get past it and go on besides what married couple never have disagreement's?
thank's to all of ya who tried to make me see something that i couldn't and somewhat refused too. thank's
windsor4fun2,
thank's for offering to help hide the body, i'll tell ya later what i did with it!!
