tandcfromma,
My wife and I always have special time to discuss our feelings, our frustrations, our joy, and our passions. These are all a part of our relationship, and talking things over is reassuring to both of us. Our love and trust for each other has grown a hundred times greater since we began to swing! I know, many would want to know "how" or "why," but it's true! Those intense and sacred feelings that you two share together are sometimes even greater when there's another person or two involved!
Just try your best to swing with very carefully selected people, and get to know them as well as you can. The experiences will be so much better, especially for a first-time swing event. Many people base their opinions on that first-time, so make sure it's fabulous!
And good luck, hope you can come back sometime and tell us just how much fun you had!!
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Ron, husband of Stratecpl