Thank you so much for all of your wonderful responses.
An, I like your ideas about running scenarios past each other and going over certain situations. I agree that communication is very important and I'm sure if it feels right we will continue to explore and learn more about ourselves and others.
Julie, you hit the nail right on the head for me in your second paragraph. The most meaningful and helpful statement was, "As long as he loves you, the sex the two of you have together will always be the best in his mind." Thank you. I really like the way you phrased that.
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Ron, what you said about being with a woman who's a knockout is very interesting. I can't imagine not feeling inferior if my husband was with a gorgeous woman but maybe time will change my insecure feelings... I understand what you're saying about the "Love" bond though. No one can take away what he and I have together. I like the way you explain things and coming from a man, this really helps me see all of this in a different light.
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And Wife, the quote you posted by Stratecpl does say it all. The way you "share" sounds like fun, too - it's a wonderful idea actually!
http://www.swingersboard.com/ubb/wink.gif You made me chuckle with your "Show and Tell" comment but you also helped me look at a few things differently...
Again, I thank all of you for taking the time to write and help me with my feelings. We'll see what the future brings but this lifestyle does sound like it can be fun and bring us even closer than we already are.
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