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Originally posted by yawanna
One thing I've learned and believe...any man who accuses you of being insecure, cheating or who says he's not sure if he can trust you...is doing exactly those things to you. The men who freak out accusing you of cheating are taking the 'best defense is an offense stance'. |
Thank you so much, yawanna, for expressing the same I was thinking - and just did not want to say straight out, so as not to hurt AZ's feelings and heart.
I realize there are times that "plain talk" is the better route, but it is just so hard for me to push out those words I know are going to cause pain. I always hope someone will get there on their own so I don't have to.
Of course, our cared for friend AZ may have already gotten there herself and is simply not giving voice to those same thoughts. I'll bet her past experiences, with him as well as prior husbands, have left her fully aware of which way the wind blows.
AZ, dear heart, I'm sorry - I'm sorry for what you are going through, I'm sorry if I failed you by not giving voice to this myself. And most of all I'm sorry for the pain I have caused you if you were hoping not to hear this, but your heart was already saying
was true!
Hugs to you AZ - and to Yawanna too!