Hi Diamond,
Hey, don't feel bad. This is an issue for us too. Although we're pretty new at all this, we've had one soft swing experience with another couple who are good friends. While kissing in this situation didn't bother my husband (or me) at all, he has said that seeing me kiss another man he doesn't know would be a bit hard. I think his view is that the kissing part is more intimate than intercourse. I agree, but I need the kissing too! But since we're not planning on jumping anyone we don't know that well anytime soon, it's not really an issue!
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