First off, you need to tell your wife the real story of what happened. Not doing so is lying to her. Not a good idea for any relationship and definately not a good way to start into swinging.
As for are you bi or bi-curious it really doesn't matter. You enjoyed it so why not try it again. But talk to your wife first and get her blessing, otherwise you are cheating on her.
I realize there's probably a huge question in your head regarding how your wife might feel about these new feelings you are having and that is most likely why you aren't telling her (you are afraid of how she will react), but you still need to do so. Better to get it out in the open now and discuss it before you go any further than to continue lying and cheat and have it ruin your marriage.
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