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Originally posted by wrnakedru
En route, he requested that I not inform my husband of the tryst. And that if I would agree, he would also not inform his wife. I was understandably puzzled by the request. So I asked "Why?" He explained that he missed the "thrill" of forbidden activity; the lifestyle and the consensual, open acceptance had removed a great deal of his enjoyment of the sexual activity itself. |
I have never experienced anything of that nature, but we did have an instance where the male half was trying to get too close to me, personally, which bothered me greatly.
From what you described, I don't understand why you would be asked not to relay it to your spouses. It was already agreed that you could play separately and you did so on a whim, so therefore in my eyes, the forbidden 'thrill' aspect was met (in a sense). Isn't telling your spouse about it, part of the fun too?
I would be very leery of anyone that made a request like that to me. Someone (I believe it was Alura) said something in another post to the affect of "Don't tell me anything that you don't want my spouse to know". I think that is a very important statement. When you start hiding things like that, there is trouble in paradise. Thanks, but no thanks, for this girl.