I don't know how to work the dang controls here beyond the smilies so I can't post quotes
anyhoo.......
is it cheating to flirt?
I think that anything is 'cheating' if you are doing something you know would put a rift between you and your partner.
If you can't or won't tell your partner, it's cheating.
online chats, flirting, Bill Clinton sex, anything.
And to Flori_DAMAN.. we don't consider ourselves, as swingers, to be sexually monogamous...it's spiritual, emotional and intellectual monogamy that we have. Sex we share with others as we choose
