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Originally posted by muffinkm
Hi guys. We just had our first experience. Overall it was an electrifying evening. But it seemed to wife and I that I was almost incidental to evening.
Question is, does this happen a lot? and how is the best way to deal with it? |
no one wants to go into an evening of fun with a set schedule or script ... a basic discussion of the expectations it good but only going to take it so far...
I, personally, would let it pass this one evening but probably mention it discreetly to the other woman of the couple... you know... hubby left here feeling a little left out last time... I'm sure it was unintentional but we were
both hoping to participate as a couple...
well something like that...
I am always VERY aware of MY hubby's feelings during an encounter and if I feel he is being neglected I switch my attention to him as it sounds like your wife did as well. Sounds like you two are doing pretty well in that silent communication area... hopefully the next time goes better...
