[RMRx2]

two threads come to mind

one thread was on how it is often hard to get a man to cum with a bj,,,,lots of advice given there,,,,,,,she must have been doing it right,,,,,,

one is on "performance anxiety" obviously there was no erection problems

those would be my two fears to start with

being a newbie myself, guess I feel for the guy,,,,

however, I've had enough negative reaction in my life to cummin "at the wrong time or place" that I think I would have been pulling away unless indicated otherwise

had one expierence years back with an expierenced couple and what pissed them off seemed to be cumming altogether,,,,,,,I give his wife an orgasim and it's geezz,,,,,"you made her cum already",,,,,,,then I cum with my partner and it's like the party's over,,,,,,,like I couldn't have gotten worked back up,,,,,,,was not a pleasant expierence

obviously communication is the key