Hey Bear, good post! You must discuss what everyone is expecting, or somebody will surely be unsatisfied in some way.
I do disagree with one statement, at least where it concerns us:
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Originally posted by bear_n_bunny
... So if you want to be chosen by one of these couples, you had better bring something special to the table, mainly be very good looking and/or be packing the Dick of Death, be able to touch your tongue to your forehead or whatever, if you want to be seriously considered.
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If we ever swing with a single guy again (and we're not going out looking) none of what you mention would matter. 'Special' to us would be a single man who knows how to be a gentleman, is open and honest, and understands our desire to be friends as well as sexual partners. He would also be concerned that
everyone has a good time and leaves satisfied, including himself. Hmmm...this doesn't sound too far from our criteria for selecting couples, now that I think about it
-B