Well you did say overall it was electrifying, so I would figure for your first experience that would be excellent. Things get better as you get more experience. But what confuses me. How come you were feeling left out. Learn to take the initiative, I am saying this because I assume you must of discussed everybodys boundaries before play. Highly recommended. It avoids many problems by doing so. Remember you're in this lifestyle for fun and pleasure, try to keep the drama out of it. On another note, I hope you guys keep the communication between the two of you open and work on getting it right. Even over the years you will find yourselves still learning and changing. Thats the fun part. Keep an open mind and enjoy the ride.
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