I just figured it out!!!! I just off the phone with my husband, and again, we debated the whole idea. It was kinda funny. I told him I went out dancing on Friday, and got some guy so hard on the dance floor, he couldn't dance with me. I made reference as to how hard his dick was, by way of "it was a slip of the hand." My husband got very defensive.... "why were you touching his dick blah blah" And I reminded him to have an open mind.......
Anyway, back to my thought. My husband and I are basically seperating. He gave me my altamadum (sp) of "accept it or we get a divorce." I'm not ready to get a divorce, but if I don't go to Germany, my marriage is over. My husband is not ready to get divorced, but he needs his own thing right now. He knows that if I don't come over there, our marriage will end. Therefore, our only option is to be roommates. That's what he's asking for. And I just figured it out.
And, with all your help and advice I now know just what I need to do. Look out Europe!!!!flamethrow |