Since you've already made the decision to go to Germany, stay strong and in control of yourself. The fact that he has told you "this is how it is going to be take it or leave it" raises some doubts in my mind about how sincere he is about wanting to live together "forever".
As the others have said he may have second thoughts once you start playing as well.
Good luck and let us know how things go. We are always here if you need to talk things out.
Jesse |