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Originally posted by rms3p0
I'm interested in new adventures, but doesn't it sound like he's asking for something more??? He keeps reassuring me that he loves me with all his heart, but isn't he sending mixed messages. Any advice and insight is appreciated. |
MIXED MESSAGES!!! that's an understatement...
wow.
well what he wants doesn't sound like swinging to me... but everyone has a different take on the situation...
it sounds more like ... he wants to go out and party... date a different girl whenever he wants but still keep you around for same old same old.... and hey... if he's busy that night... feel free to get yourself a date...
I am really really sorry -
I'd be really questioning a lot of things... including whether this was a guy I wanted to spend the rest of my life with?
Swinging is for us a LOT about sharing the experience with each other...
He really seems to be disregarding your feelings... "agree to disagree" on something like THIS? I don't know...
lots of red flags...
I hope someone can offer you better advice.... HELP?
but you know... I'd be a little tempted to go out to the bars everynight... especially if I knew he couldn't go because he was at work... lot easier for a girl to get laid than a guy...?
