After reading your second post and rereading your first, I also have concerns about your husbands intentions.
Unfortunately, he has made enough comments to make me think he's not willing to wait.
This sounds like he has decided what he wants to do and is not giving you a choice and does not care about your feelings. That is a major warning flag to me.
He keeps telling me that I should find someone to have fun with.
This is just his attempt to justify his actions.
just don't want to order the same thing off the menu over and over again
This I find a little insulting. Swinging should be about enhancing your relationship, not relieving boredom.
YOU need to decide what is best for you. Once you have done this talk to your husband. You both need to be agreement about swinging and what form it takes. If not it will destroy your relationship.
Jesse |