Thanks for your interest. You probably aren't as confused as I am. He wants my persmission to go and bump anything he wants to. He is trying to imply that it won't be all the time, just when he see's something exceptional. As he quoted, "I just don't want to order the same thing off the menu over and over again." My suggestion was to take it slow, and involve me. The idea of bringing someone into our bedroom is kind of entertaining. So I suggested we start there, and work our way into bigger endevours, that I would probably be able handling sharing him with others. Unfortunately, he has made enough comments to make me think he's not willing to wait. "What difference does it make if I do or don't?" is his response. So I talk about taking my feelings into concideration, blah, blah, and we end up agreeing to disagree. He keeps telling me that I should find someone to have fun with. That if I do, I can call him (my husband), and tell him to leave the house for awhile so I can have some company.
I'm interested in new adventures, but doesn't it sound like he's asking for something more??? He keeps reassuring me that he loves me with all his heart, but isn't he sending mixed messages. Any advice and insight is appreciated. |