I have to agree here.. str8tcouple... you seem to be the exception to the rule. Many people who are in ideal physical shape are quite rude, mean and unaccepting of those of us that aren't. I have been on both ends of the spectrum, in amazing physical shape and now a size 20... I am still the same person the only difference is I don't spend 3 hours a day excersizing anymore, I never would have made nasty comments like I see all the time when I was "buff"
No fatties, chunkers, plumpers- these are all some of the things we BBW get all the time. There is the automatic assumtion that if you are not ideal size then your fat, lazy and don't keep yourself up. I am fat, but I work out 5 times a week, love lifting weights and am in better shape than many thin people that I know. LOL- on my honeymoon there was an instance where I was at the gamesworks in vegas goofing around on the vitural kickboxing machine... I went 15 rounds before I was to tired to go on and I won every round (and I was pregnant to boot LOL). There is an assumption floating around out there that fat= lazy, dirty, smelly, unattractive and unkept and it is just ridiculous.
My advice you you deanna is definitely put BBW in the begining of your adds and hang in there you will find people accepting of YOU and not just your waist size.
Steph
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