Straightcouple--
Much can be gleaned from an ad, by the wording used. We've seen several of them use disparaging and often insulting terminology when conveying what they're looking for in others.
For example, many ads in swappernet and other sites say things like "no fatties", or other such comments. If they don't like overweight people, fine, but why use hurtful terms such as these?
And we still stand by our assertion that VERY few slim couples have any interest in overweight people. We've scanned hundreds in Swappernet, and off the top of my head I can only think of a single instance where a slim couple specifically state weight in others doesn't matter. Of course swing partners need to be compatable, but you seem to be saying "compatable" is synonymous with similarity in build, at least that's what we get from your post.
Trust us, we've been in this long enough to see an established pattern here, both over the internet and in meet and greets. And while you two may not be 'snobbish' in intent, there are plenty of slim/hardbody types out there who are. Take the time to read the wording of many ads, and the conceit is obvious.
Husband of CanadianCouple
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