I think my wife summed it up quite well. We know for a fact that we've been culled out by at least one couple for such reasons as stated. We finally attended our first pre-party get together Saturday. We didn't get to make the party because we don't have a sitter for our children as of yet... but every guy there was eyeing my wife with lusty eyes!! LOL It made me feel very good, I can guarantee you.
And we lusted after a few ourselves, so it's mutual. What I'm saying is that fitness is not a criteria for playmates, but it's our personal choice for ourselves. There comes a time in life that you grow old and you begin to lose interest in the finer things in life. That is, unless you do something about that.
That's why we work out, to stay fit, to be able to enjoy life to its fullest. We are in the best condition of our lives right now, so that's our reason. It's not a "snob" thing, or a "better than you are" thing either. It's personal, a way of life, just as swinging is a way of life.
And if we find a sitter, we may have lots to say about a party sometimes!!
LOL
Ron, Husband of Stratecpl