CanadianCouple,
Not all people who are looking for as you say "attractive" couples are doing it in a self centered way. You said the word compatible..thats the keyword isn't it? Compatible? We are Not "model material" however..yes we are some of those nasty ole hardbody types...We look for people like ourselves to be COMPATIBLE with..not because we think we're all that great. We do like to be able to carry on a conversation with people though and having the love of fitness in common is something we could all talk for hours about and relate to. We all would have the respect for each others determination to do what we do too. We would be compatible. If we turn down anybody who is overweight..nine times out of ten it's because we are not compatible with them..not because we think we are better than them. Actually we have found there are many couples who will pass us up on our looks before ever even getting to know us..we are being judged along with the ones out there that are the Ken and Barbie and Model types. It's two sides to the coin...us hardbody's get judged for our looks too.
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