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CanadianCouple · 05-20-2001, 04:49 PM

Deanna--

Being married to a woman who would be considered a BBW within the swinging world, we've seen both sides of the fence concerning acceptability. When scanning ads with pictures, we can pretty well determine which couples will respond positively to our replys, without even looking at the text of their ads. Our experience has been, VERY few couples who are thin/slim are interested in anyone who isn't. Anyone tagging themselves as "model material" is almost certainly out.

We don't like to disparage those who seek only "attractive" couples, but we feel many of them are quite shallow and self centered, deep down. It mirrors many other avenues of life its seems, for example not many CEO's will hang out with clerks at WalMart. Such is life, but if you're determined to pursue this lifestyle ( we hope you are), you WILL connect with compatable people. This takes patience, but the rewards are more than worth it.

Husband of CanadianCouple

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05-20-2001, 04:49 PM	#7 (permalink)
CanadianCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 1,139 Location: New Brunswick, Canada Status: Married Couple	Deanna-- Being married to a woman who would be considered a BBW within the swinging world, we've seen both sides of the fence concerning acceptability. When scanning ads with pictures, we can pretty well determine which couples will respond positively to our replys, without even looking at the text of their ads. Our experience has been, VERY few couples who are thin/slim are interested in anyone who isn't. Anyone tagging themselves as "model material" is almost certainly out. We don't like to disparage those who seek only "attractive" couples, but we feel many of them are quite shallow and self centered, deep down. It mirrors many other avenues of life its seems, for example not many CEO's will hang out with clerks at WalMart. Such is life, but if you're determined to pursue this lifestyle ( we hope you are), you WILL connect with compatable people. This takes patience, but the rewards are more than worth it. Husband of CanadianCouple [This message has been edited by CanadianCouple (edited 05-20-2001).]