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Originally posted by CyberMWCouple:
We wouldn't consider hanging out with anyone with disrespectful attitudes towards our relationship. 
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I don't think you are seeing both sides of this. I can see where it sounds harsh that a couple would feel that way. But to many couples the idea of going to a club is that they can have fun and get to know many people and even play with many people.
If they are there with a new couple who may only be comfortable with the experienced couple by their side it holds back the experienced couple. Puts them in a position where they can only play if the new couple is up for it and interested in the other people they are wanting to play with.
It's not a matter of disrespect, it's actually more of RESPECT. They don't want to just leave you standing there to fend for yourself while they are off having fun, but at the same time they do want to have fun.
Basically, if they are really friends they will most likely be happy to have you go with them so that you are comfortable for your first time.. just remember tho that they are in a way putting themselves out to do so.
Julie
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