Julie,
These are ALL good information, especially for those of us who haven't done the "clubbing" thing.......Yet.
Personally, I would feel much more comfortable going to a swingers club with other friends/couples who we know and already swing with. This way, when the sexual fun begins, we have mutual swinging friends/partners there to play with! And maybe, if we decide to "play" with others there at the club, then that's okay too...
"Baby-steps" for me....
Wife of Cyber
MWCouple