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rms3p0 · 07-27-2003, 05:58 PM

K, here goes. I will be married 2 years in September. My husband has been talking about having an "open marriage." He has a female picked out that he wants to bring home, for us. But also be free to explore our own needs, individually. I have to admit, I am a little intrigued. And I guess I'm realistic in knowing that passion and lust for others will always be there, so why not know what is going on then be cheated and lied to. I'm a little scared, but i think it will make me a more secure person to know that this is what we are doing. He has confessed his love, wants to be married and come home to me everynight, but needs more...... Do I sound crazy? I have more to say, but I don't wanna ramble. I am down to try new things. I don't know if I will feel the same way when it actually happens, but i don't think it would hurt to try.
Any advice for someone just starting?

07-27-2003, 05:58 PM	#1 (permalink)
rms3p0 Registered Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 7 Location: Tacoma, WA Status: Couple	Husband Suggested Open Marriage K, here goes. I will be married 2 years in September. My husband has been talking about having an "open marriage." He has a female picked out that he wants to bring home, for us. But also be free to explore our own needs, individually. I have to admit, I am a little intrigued. And I guess I'm realistic in knowing that passion and lust for others will always be there, so why not know what is going on then be cheated and lied to. I'm a little scared, but i think it will make me a more secure person to know that this is what we are doing. He has confessed his love, wants to be married and come home to me everynight, but needs more...... Do I sound crazy? I have more to say, but I don't wanna ramble. I am down to try new things. I don't know if I will feel the same way when it actually happens, but i don't think it would hurt to try. Any advice for someone just starting?