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Originally posted by watcherone:
In our situation I think the other guy has a little bit of problem understanding that I could actually sit "calmly" and watch him get of with my wife. Two guys with her really makes for some interesting after talk.
Doesnt being able to freely be what and who you really are sexually give you such a great feeling. My wife and I feel more real and honest now. It is like taking a mask off and showing the true you to the rest of the world. I love it and so does she! |
I think a lot of people who aren't voyeurs have a hard time understanding how a husband can just sit and watch his wife have sex with another guy. Mine loves it.. and will watch till he can't take it anymore and has to join in. That makes me love it all the more.. just knowing that he enjoys it so much. And I always look forward to the moment when he just cant' take it anymore
I love the freedom that the lifestyle gives us. Before we were married I always had it in my head that when you get married have to give all of that up. I knew some swingers but I had the attitude of "that's just wrong.. you're married you don't do that".. now I totally understand and wouldn't trade it. The thing is and probably the most important thing, is that I was willing to give it all up for hubby and did for a while, I just got lucky and got a guy who loves the real me.
Julie
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