We havent been with another couple, a couple of guys-yes. After we did it the first time, it was with a friend of fifteen years, it was a bit awkward on his side but my wife and I actually felt closer to each other and to him. He was more at ease after the next time and became closer after each time. My own after effects were all good. I had been trying to do this for so many years that finally doing it was pure extasy(sp.). I totally enjoyed it and actually had a ball with the first friend, having my wife flirt and enticing him in front of me really made me boil- not mad but in a hot and sticky way.
In our situation I think the other guy has a little bit of problem understanding that I could actually sit "calmly" and watch him get of with my wife. Two guys with her really makes for some interesting after talk.
Doesnt being able to freely be what and who you really are sexually give you such a great feeling. My wife and I feel more real and honest now. It is like taking a mask off and showing the true you to the rest of the world. I love it and so does she!
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