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Originally posted by CindyB:
Ok, so tell me please. What DO you DO when you know the other guy is safe (from disease) and you hate condoms. (And we all know that "skin on skin" is much better than "Latex on skin.") So, you take the pill and roll the dice everytime you play? Or you don't play? Seems like those are the options to me. I was the one they had to talk into playing... and now I really don't want to stop! |
Personally, it's not a chance we'll take. In our case, hubby has had the big V, and I am on the pill (to control periods not as a birth control). We still use condoms with everyone we play with tho. It's just not a risk we want to take. I too know way too many people who have gotten pregnant on all manners of birth control (the pill, norplant, shots, tubes tied, you name it, nothing is 100%). But for us pregnancy is the least of our worries. If we had one couple that we were monogomous with then maybe eventually we would take off the condoms but even then I'm not sure.
I was at a party last week where people were doing strangers without condoms (and guys were trying to get at me that way.. guys I'd known for less than an hour).. that was a little too wild for me.. and something I wasn't about to let happen. It's just one of those choices you have to make for yourself. If you are willing to take the chance, take it.. there are plenty of other swingers out there who will take it with you. You don't need everyone else's approval to do what you want to do.
Julie
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