Hey Jennx,
I'll agree with Chicup here. Your relationship together is still very young. I don't mean this based on age, as I have no clue how old you are. It is based on the infancy of your relationship.
It was after several years of my husband (then s/o) were together before we began talking about it. It took even more years for us to actually find out their was such a thing as swinging and to learn more about. (Prior to that we considered sex outside of a committed relationship as cheating.) The talking about it heightened our bedroom play together and was fun to fantasize about but neither of us were sure that we could visualize ourselves with someone else.
I would suggest to stay in the fantasy phase for now and as you grow together as a couple and become more secure with each other it may become a reality someday. If not you'll have at least had some hotter sex!
As for your problems with orgasm, is this something medically related? Or is it a problem that you have always had when it comes to penetration?
Lori
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