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Originally posted by Rabbyt
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Originally posted by Elusive BiFem Hi Rabbyt (and Buck, too). First, let me insert the caveat that I am NOT married or involved so I'm not coming at this from the perspective of a *wife*. 
But I am *old* and female, so that counts for something. 
I'm really interested in females points of view on this. I think it helps me get a better perspective on it. And btw, I would rather call you *wise* and female.
And Buck: ElusiveBiFem, if you read this, I agree with Rabbyt, the word should be "wise" not "old"....especially since I think you and I are about the same age. Thanks again for your wise advice."
Thanks, Rabbyt and Buck. That *wise* thinng kind of makes my day.
I have a friend that told me just recently, " You didn't make a mistake. You were just practicing." I thought that was a terrific way to look at things.
And now this thing about being "wise" vs. "old." Sort of in the same vein...
The problem is, I'm so very *wise* that I shouldn't need to *practice* anymore. I should have life down pat by now.
Have a great day - EBF