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Old 07-16-2003, 01:55 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I'm guessing she knows you enjoy a good E-book before bed. Just tell her the truth. Say "honey you'll never believe this book I got the other night when I was looking for a new e-book". Then tell her about it. Obviously you didn't read it initially because of an interest in swinging, so being truthful here lets her decide on her own what to do with the info that you have found.

Tell her about the book and see what she has to say in response. If her reaction is "that is sick and wrong" then let it go. Either way the thought is planted in her head and she will probably continue to think about it. Either deciding she is totally against it or perhaps considering it and deciding that she too wants to know more.

The key here is to open the doors of communication and keep them open.
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