Excellent advice, twopeople2! At least that is how it got started with us. We had a really crappy porn video that had no sound to it so it kinda forced us to talk while watching it and playing around.
RabbyT, what ever you do, don't spring it on her and don't force the issue. It took several years of talking for me (the female half) to finally think to myself "Hey, this might be fun!" We did at least 3 years of "pillow talking" and fantasizing, and even then I had to do a whole lot of research before we took the first step. This site is an excellent place for researching it and the folks around here are more than willing to answer any questions that you have. I think if you bring it up to her in the right way, we started talking about it while making love, you'll not harm your relationship at all. Just gauge her reaction and if she clams up or turns cold on you. STOP and tell her you were just having a fantasy and nothing more. Let it have time to sink in and who knows, she could be the next one to bring it up to you.
Good luck and welcome to the board!
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