Do you watch porn together? Maybe you could make comments about whatever part of that you may like and see how she reacts. Or even talking dirty during sex. I don't mean bust out and say I'd like to swing honey would you? But, it would be a way to give her a hint or ease into it without outright shocking her. She may go along with it and think it's just sex talk but then later when you're out of bed you could bring it up and go from there. Others may suggest a more direct approach but just an idea, it worked for me.
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