I disagree: cheating should NEVER be a part of swinging. If it is, then you shouldn't swing. Jealousy has no place in the Lifestyle.
If one partner insists on everything going their way, then that person is being selfish and not thinking of their partner or caring if their partner is getting pleasure from the experience. If a partner feels slighted, something is quite wrong, and serious communication should take place with the other partner to clear up the misunderstanding.
To answer your question: "If you look waaay back did you at any point? Just curious, because sometimes we forget our baby steps. " No= neither my husband nor myself in our 16 years together and 13+ years of swinging, ever felt jealous of the other or slighted in anyway. We have swing open as a couple and I have attended many swing events as a single female, with his approval. Perhaps we've been very lucky or just communicate well with each other our expectations and boundaries in the Lifestyle. Either way, we haven't ever had to deal with those issues. Hope that answered your question!
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